How to Get a Guy to Like You

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Most men are attracted to confidence. As the old saying goes, when you look good, you feel good. Take a little extra time when getting ready. Not so much that you’re late, but taking a little extra pride in your appearance can do wonders for your confidence. If you haven’t heard, confidence is an uber attractive feature!

Smell Like A Rose woman-hands-spraying-perfume-38284100

I don’t mean a rose in a literal sense. Humans are primal beings and we rely heavily on our senses to tell us whether something is good or bad. A whiff of a fragrant perfume can snatch a guy’s attention mid stroll. Don’t be afraid to dab on a drop or two before leaving the house!

Share His Interest

You may not be into sports, video games, theater, or novels. However, if he is, it wouldn’t hurt to brush up on those subjects to show you’re interested in his interest. If he’s a sports fanatic, impress him with some stats about his team or a recent game. However, avoid lengthy conversations during his time of recreation. How would you feel if someone asked a million questions during your favorite show? Exactly!

Don’t Just Talk, but Listen woman-love-curiously-listening-to-her-man-talking-men-happy-couple-looking-each-other-smiling-romantic-couple-relaxing-40714001

It’s very important that the guy knows who you are and what you’re about through the art of conversation. It’s also important for you to know the same about him. Don’t let the information go in one ear and out of the other. Make an effort to remember the information he mentions that is of importance. If you really want to impress him, follow-up on those areas. “How are things coming along with your work project?”

Speak His Love Language

Learning a person’s love language, and your own, can significantly improve the way you communicate on an intimate level. The last thing you want is to pressure a guy who shows his love into saying it more when that’s not his love language. Not sure what your love language is? Check out this 30-question quiz!

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While a certain level of mysteriousness can be attractive, don’t strive to be an elusive enigma. Allow him to get to know you as well. Share your interests so he knows you have a life outside of him. This will ensure he doesn’t place you in the “clingy” box!

Have an Opinion

When he asks “what do you want to do,” do not blindly respond with “I don’t care” or “I don’t know.” Have an opinion! It’s one thing to be amenable but it’s quite another to be indecisive. If he’s asking, it’s because he wants your opinion!

Flaunt Your Smile images

A study conducted by Dr. Alex Jones, lecturer in psychology at Welsh University and expert in facial perception, revealed scientific evidence that a smile is the best accessory. According to Dr. Jones, the face looks healthier when someone is smiling versus a neutral expression. Therefore, layer on the honey (Be sweet. Not actual honey) and flaunt that great big smile. If your smile isn’t the brightest, look into brightening strips or natural remedies!